ICFS minutes Sunday Oct 26, 2014 Attendees Ron Jordan, Jeri Bylus, Bob Bylus, Betsy Bylus, Phil Cantor, Marc Hornick, Rosalyn Davidoff, Barbara Greene, Mitchell Greene, Dottie Cantor, Steve Cantor, Kenny Wachtell, Florence Hornick and caregiver, Sandy Hornick, Linda hornick, Aaron Hornick Aaron Hornick was selected to chair the meeting. Previous meetings minutes were unavailable. . Barbara Greene announced: …birth of grandaughter Molly Lloyd to Traci and avi Lloyd, Aug 22, 2014, 7 lb 15 oz. …Jaimi and Dovid Feld are expecting a baby in December. Ron Jordan announced the passing of his father, Lou Jordan, on July 3, 2014,one week before his 90th birthday. The members observed a minute of silence . Marc Hornick announced Florence Hornick’s continuing recovery from a broken hip, sustained in March, 2014. Treasurer’s report was unavailable. It was estimated that the checking account has approximately $6000. Cemetery issues: addressed by Ron Jordan. Beth Israel Cemetery foresters requested (ICFS procure) a permit to engrave the stone for George (Forster) Mt. Judah Cemetery stones are damaged: William and Rose Cantor stone is either down or leaning. This would primarily be the responsibility of his nearest descendant. Steve Cantor appears to be nearest relative who is a member. Expected cost $300. Ron informed members: The cemetery is responsible for perpetual care but not for repairing stones. Also a paving stone or short concrete sidewalk in front of two pylons serving as a side gate to the ICFS plot has been heaved up (possibly by frost or root growth). Resetting or removal of the sidewalk was discussed. A motion was made to authorize ICFS cemetery representatives to discuss with cemetery the possibility of resetting the stone and possibly authorize the representatives to have the work done for up to $1000. Objections were made by 2 members to authorizing such a cost, and Sandy Hornick questioned whether the paving stone / concrete was necessary at all since the gate leads only to unpaved grassy area. He suggested we might just have the stone / concrete removed. Ken Wachtell volunteered to find out what cemetery would do to correct the situation and what it can do for up to $1000. By a vote of 9 -2 it was approved to investigate the cost of the cemetery fixing the problem – up to $1000. Upon investigation, Ken Wachtell or ICFS cemetery representatives will report findings to ICFS. New business. New members, Ben and Betsy Bylus of New Canaan and Jeri Bylus of Manhattan? were admitted as social members. Discussion accompanying the admission determined that Ben Bylus is the grandson of Benjamin Cantor, who was a son of Israel Cantor. And who owned a candy shop. Siblings of Benjamin Cantor were identified as Sol, Moe and Molly. Recent new member Steven Cantor, who joined ICFS at 100th anniversary meeting in June, 2014, identified himself as son of Arthur, who was the son of William Cantor. Members discussed a date and venue for the next meeting. Date: May 3, 2015. ICFS will try to arrange the meeting to be on Ellis Island. Ben Bylus volunteered to inquire about facilities to hold meeting on Ellis Island. Members asked that bathroom and meeting room facilities availibility be ascertained, that a caterer should be inquired about for provision of food for $25 - $30 per person, for 20 – 50 people. Alternate date for next meeting would be May 17. Ken Wachtell reported that he has been placing 11 American flags on the cemetery at the graves of ICFS war veterans. Ken proposed that the society contribute $18 to Jewish War Veterans, as this type of charitable contribution was very commonly done by ICFS. Phil Cantor objected that the administrative duties of such a contribution would devolve to him. No vote was taken on tis proposal. Mitchell Greene suggested that we have a mid summer gathering for some social activity such as volley ball. No vote was taken on this proposal. Marc Hornick suggested that we try to plan the October, 2015 meeting as an apple picking outing – as Sandy, Linda and Aaron Hornick reported this being a pleasant tradition of theirs. Sandy Hornick will look into a place for this to occur. Lyman Orchards in Middlefield, Ct. and probable facility Harvest Moon Orchard on Hardscrabble Road in Westchester were suggested for this purpose. Meeting was adjourned.
Author: ICFS
A new website for a new century
Now that the first hundred years have passed on the Family Society. I thought it was important that we have a website the doesn’t look like it was made in 1913. Not only is the new site easier on the eyes, but it’s much easier to maintain and to post new items. This means you can expect more frequent updating and more Cantor family news, so check back often! I’m still working on migrating some of the old stuff (I’m sure you’re all dying to check out past meeting minutes) but most of the good things are there.
See you at Ben’s in the fall!
The JEWISH DAILY FORWARD website today has a wonderful and heartwarming story about the 100th Anniversary of the Israel Cantor Family Society. The newspaper had sent a reporter who interviewed various members and observed the shenanigans on Saturday.
Shouts-out to Florence, Sandy, Mikhail, Dan, Libby, John, and Tess for giving such pithy and cool quotes.
http://forward.com/articles/183783/new-york-states-oldest-landsmanschaften-celebrates/?p=all
Arthur Liebersohn 1951-2012
Arthur
Liebersohn
February 9, 1951 –
February 29, 2012
Eulogies
- Daniel Cantor, brother-in-law
- Joseph Liebersohn, brother
- Harry Liebersohn, cousin
- Bruce Duffy, boyhood friend
- Tess Liebersohn, daughter
- Max Liebersohn, son
- Dennis O’Donnell with a poem
- Philadelphia Inquirer obituary
- Family photos of Arthur
Eulogy
Daniel Cantor — March 4, 2012
Brother-in-law
Arthur Liebersohn was born in Washington DC on February 9, 1951. He was the youngest of David and Bertha Liebersohn’s four children, after the arrivals of Joe, Hope and Yona. He grew up in Chevy Chase, Maryland, and after high school, he left for the University of Wisconsin in Madison, where he studied economics. The indifferent high school student was all of a sudden invigorated by the life of the mind and got serious about academic work in college.
The 95th Anniversary of the Israel Cantor Family Society was held on the S.S. Cabaret on a spectacularly beautiful fall Sunday. The boat left Pier 81 for a brunch cruise that sailed down the Hudson River around the tip of Manhattan and up the East River to the United Nations providing us with amazing views of the three major bridges, the “Waterfalls” art installation, the Brooklyn waterfront, Governor’s Island, and, of course, close-ups of Ellis Island, where our ancestors landed.
The Society thanks Larry Becker, Phil Cantor, Ron Jordan, and Madeline Cantor for their hard work in putting the trip together and to making it a success. The 95th Anniversary will be difficult to top… the planners of the 100th have their hands full to top this incredible afternoon.
Keep reading to see lots of photos and read reports from three members.
Millie Cantor 1920-2008
Millie Cantor
April 13, 1920 – May 12, 2008
The Funeral Service
Casino Night
Family Society’s First Casino Night Is A Huge Success!
November 11, 2007 was not only the 98th anniversary of the World War I armistice, but also the first Israel Cantor Family Society Casino Night. It was held at the Hornick-Becker household in Brooklyn , and was a popular event. There was some kind of meeting beforehand, at which cemetery plots and the 95th anniversary weekend were discussed, but all of that was just a preface to the rampant gambling that went on in the basement later.
The shenanigans began with a pre-recorded horse race by Larry Becker. Participants chose from a list of horses, and listened to a race between supposed thoroughbreds named: Fivel Cantor Goes West, Matzoh Ball Kid, Brittney Shmears, Is There A Doctor In The House For My Daughta?, Kutshers Again, and Pastrami Platter. After a neck-and-neck race, the winner was…Kutshers Again! Those who chose the right horse started out with one extra chip. It was a great way to start the afternoon.
After the horse race, everyone convened in the basement, where the croupiers wore the standard green clear plastic visors and vests with bowties. Suddenly, family ties meant nothing. Third cousins were challenging each other at the roulette table, husbands and wives were sworn enemies at the blackjack table, and parents and children bluffed at the Texas Hold ‘Em poker table. After two hours of reckless gambling, players cashed in their winnings for raffle tickets, which were redeemed for prizes: t-shirts with Cantor family wisdom on the back (see below). Eli Markham-Cantor and David Berman were among the highest winners, making their fortunes at the poker and roulette tables respectively.
It was a fabulous event and all had a great time throwing their inhibitions to the wind. Audrey and Daryl Hornick-Becker and Aaron and Meredith Hornick did a fantastic job organizing. And, a big thank you to Amy Hornick and Larry Becker, Linda and Sandy Hornick for their great efforts in making the meeting a success. There is a movement to make this an annual event. Place your bets!
Audrey Hornick-Becker presented the winning t-shirts.
The winners received the above t-shirt with the following legend on the back:
What Happens Here Stays Here…
And has to be argued about for five hours
But can’t get voted on till the next meeting
Where one person will take control of the society
And someone throws a chair
And all the pastrami is gone
And one word:
Kutshers
— as observed by Tess Liebersohn, Philadelphia.
Norma Cantor Wachtel 1915-2005
Norma Cantor Wachtel
March 30, 1915 – December 13, 2005
Norma Wachtel’s autobiography as transcribed by her son, Ken Wachtel
At this stage in my life I am being called upon to relate the “story of my life.” I approach this project with an ambivalence of feelings. I want my children to know that I, as well as they, are products of 4,000 years of history. But, memories can bring many sadnesses. However, facts must be related or we wonder “why?” at some future date, didn’t I ask my mother that? Therefore, for history’s sake, for the sake of my children, and for myself, I will attempt to place myself in time.
The Eagle has Landed
Nathaniel D. Cantor, 18, of Montclair, NJ, received his Eagle Badge from the Boy Scouts of America. Nate’s Eagle project was organizing and overseeing the spray painting of warnings on sewer grates against the dumping of toxic wastes. His project was done at the behest of the Montclair Environmental Affairs Coordinator. Nate attends Washington University in St. Louis.